.Paula, I cannot express how grateful I am for the whole article, of which I represented the ‘abstract’ version in my previous post.
It’s vindicating to see your life in others’ publications, but hard. Very DIFFICULT. I can’t express this. I’m dumbfounded. This is my ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP with my X monster, all the way down to the descriptions of seeing things through a cloud (the article describes this as seeing things as a blur). It’s amazing that the way I chose to separate myself from him, emotionally is also addressed in this article. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE read this!! Click on the link below..
I might print this for my HR manager.