Oh, I could NEVER have put my relationship experience any more eloquently! This is my LIFE with my X!…though this centers on primarily a Narcissist, it’s also the M.O. of a psychopath!!

Psychopath Resistance

Devalue and Discard


A narcissist will quickly devalue and discard his target, claiming he is the victim. His victims are now put in a defensive role by his lies and character assassination. By involving others he is enlarging his circle of those who give him attention. Any attention you may have given him is now replaced and multiplied by other people he manages to fool. A win/win scenario for a narcissist.

He will increase his attempts to provoke his victim into some reaction—the more emotional the better to make her look crazy and himself sane. Do NOT take his bait. It is his trap and setup. Provoking you into a reaction is his goal.

Dr. Vaknin explains: “Even the victim’s relatives, friends, and colleagues are amenable to the considerable charm, persuasiveness, and manipulativeness of the abuser and to his impressive thespian skills. The abuser offers a plausible rendition of the…

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  1. weareonebyruth

    Interesting how someone else’s experience can so mirror our own. Frightening to realize that there are enough psychopaths and narcissistics out their to make this possible. Validation does help but I always feel sad that someone else has a similar experience.

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