This is worth a post! I wanted to encourage you all to take some time at this website: http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Evelyn_Roberts_Brooks .
These articles are timely for many of us who are learning the hard things about ourselves, in order to change. Those that are recognizing the need for boundaries, why they should be there and why they are not. I recommend that every seasoned survivor read each article. There is room to question some of her ideas, but not many! Worth your time, believe me!